Objective:
- Studying personal development from birth to young adulthood.
- Identify the level of maturity of a person according to their level.
- Identify each person’s personal potential.
Introduction:
Name: Noriatie Binti Anuar
Age: 21 years old
Gender: Female
Birthplace: Marudi Hospital
Family background :
- Mother’s Name: Rosediana Binti Abdullah
- Father’s Name: Anuar Bin Bate
- Brother name : Fadli Bin Anuar
- Sister name : Noorainie Binti Anuar
- Younger brother name : Farizal Bin Anuar
Background to education: In 2011 I passed the Primary School Evaluation Exam (UPSR), in 2014 I passed the Form 3 Certificate, and obtained the Secondary Assessment Certificate (SPM). All three of these I have studied at the Sarawak Baram National Secondary School. However, I have continued my diploma course with a Certificate of Secondary Assessment (STPM) from 2017 to 2018. Finally, I am now pursuing a degree in counseling.
Life goals : Provide knowledge, time, wealth and energy to families and communities.
Motto : ‘when there is a will, there is Allah will show the way’.
A milestone : Ever since college, I have been active in school activities. With the accolades I was able to contribute a little to the school’s reputation. However, school work is still well-prepared because it is very clear to be a successful student of good knowledge. At school, I was also known as a peer mentor to become the head of a group. With good personalities, teachers and people around us will easily come to us for help. Examples of school achievements include being a class leader, hopeful student in the school and a former school superintendent.
However, the attitude and responsibility of a good student never forgets and harps on the responsibilities of home and school that it is very difficult to be a good child to mother and father. Further achievements that have been achieved are taking part in human capital courses on cooperative and cooperative governance. Other courses include computer courses and programs for senior citizens.
As I grew older, I became more and more ashamed to show myself to be a brave student to show off my existing talents. This has put me at a disadvantage and kept me quiet and so on. In middle school it was my talent that was beginning to take hold and was difficult to pull off on my own. However, my lessons in the classroom never left me to continue to learn and continue to miss any lessons taught by the teachers in the classroom.
1.) Psychosocial
Most of the time I will spend time with my family from friends. This is because when I was young I was taught to be with my family when I came home from school. It’s rare for me to hang out with my old friends because my family is worried about me. It improves my personality more closely than anyone else. However, my family will still take care of me from childhood so that nothing will ever hurt me. Adequate attention has given me more appreciation from a young age until now. Therefore, I am closer to family than anyone else. Whenever possible, I always fill with positive things like helping my parents in the garden, planting flowers and cooking for lunch and dinner. That way my time and my family are always spent building closer friendships with each other.
2.)Social cognition
I turned 21 this year to build a good identity for the future of my family, nation and nation. It has been a lot of bitter and sweet experiences that have led me to be more confident in building a better future. Not all of my experiences are memorable because my brain memory can’t remember what I did in the past. The only experience I could remember in college was falling to the floor until my head became a bad bump on my right forehead. This was because the assistant head of the class was jealous of me for the first place in the class and when the classroom teacher asked me to take the book in the teacher’s room because at that time I was the class leader in the classroom. To this day I still remember the bitter experience I had been through. In addition to the sweet experience, I do not think that I have made good decisions and been the best example of Islamic education in the classroom. Cognitive social teaches to remind us of experiences we had in the past.
3)Social learning
Good social learning can help one to develop better. This has been taught since childhood. The role of parents from the beginning of marriage to the responsibility to educate and educate us better. For example, my parents always pay more attention to their children in teaching us to communicate well with others. Being polite to other people has always been a norm since it is a family tradition of caring for people who are older than us. When social learning is at home, learning at school is easy in our brains because we can easily understand what we are learning. Respect for the teachers in the school is the responsibility of the pupils in the school to be excellent students. Therefore, good social learning can enhance one’s personality for the better in the eyes of good people because whatever is done with that good attitude needs to be applied in one’s life.
In the past and now I am still haunted by my parents despite my age in my 20s. This has made me more aware of my own personal aspects. There are other friends who are free from parental attention and have children of their own since they have their own household. My attitude from childhood to adulthood has never been different because some parents often give me advice. On the other hand, when it comes to maturity, I am more mature when my parents are by my side because there are things that make them a good rebuke to make us think more openly when dealing with outsiders. This makes my brain more receptive to my social anxiety. Therefore, a person’s role will change depending on the situation. There is no one who can change our personality more than ourselves. For example, when angry, others cannot calm my anger except for myself to recover from the situation. These receptors are often seen when people grow up in their respective stages.
Conclusion
In conclusion, I’m more focused on my career. Extensive knowledge improves my understanding of the career I pursue. Good job planning strategies can help improve good work. For example when I and my family can monitor my behavior and always guide me on the right path, my brain is more focused on the situation. A person’s ability to rely on his or her own personality is to remember what is learned or not. Moreover, sadness, happiness, jealousy, pride and so on will remain with everyone but under different circumstances. Critiques also contribute to different aspects of the individual’s personality. Finally, each age group experiences a different development and will not be the same. In fact, it follows the ability of the self and connects with the cells in the body such as the brain and others. Therefore, maturity also exists when we have an antibody ready for a new and powerful action to make us more confident about who we really are.
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